There will come a time when we will take our last breath and will not walk this earth, again. At least, as we know it today. So, why not live such a life that will not be forgotten, and people can speak of us in a respectful and honorable way. A way that would make others say, “I wish I could have met him or her.”

As we approach and are in our ‘Golden Years”, the mind-set changes. Life is approached a different way at levels we don’t look at as we were young and feeling free and invincible. We slow down, do more reflecting on the wisdom gained, and watch things around us. In our Golden Years, we are very much alive and well, and appreciating each day as a gift.

When I think about the end of my life, I would hope words would be expressed such as hard-working, kind, patient, boundaries set, and walk with a light step. My dad used to tell me that, “A man is only as good as his word.” I have tried to live by this each day, with understanding that outside interference can alter what we can and cannot do at times. We don’t have control over outside interference, but do have control of our own choices in the ability of what we can control… Just doing our best!

As we do get older and reflect, wisdom is used to determine what do or don’t do as we lean on the experiences we have had through life. I have had to set firm boundaries, and yet be kind enough to keep from hurting people. And… At times, I have hurt people by saying, “No!” I understand that not everyone is out for my best interest, and most times my response will be “No.”

I love my co-workers and manager! They are enjoyable to be around and work with. I may not altogether agree with them at times, but that is okay. They are still a joy to work with! We spend ten hours a day together, and should be looking for common ground and flexibility with each other to make the day go easier. Because it is a relaxed atmosphere, I always keep chocolates and a variety of candies and cookies with me and share when I have the chance. may hear a good tap-toeing song and grab the arm of another and do a little swing. Or as one of the gentlemen is about my age, we will hear a ‘Golden Oldie’ and do the swing together. All innocent and a time to enjoy each others company, while working. Life is too short to be serious all of the time, even on the job. We need to find ways to have fun and enjoy. the time spent. I have even called another manager an ‘Old Scrooge” because he didn’t like Christmas songs, but all in fun. He would just laugh and go on, expressing his dislike. That too is okay!

I say… Enjoy Life! You only get to do and live it once! Find ways to reach across the table, without compromising your beliefs and standards.

Daily writing prompt

Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.

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